When things go wrong, you have two choices. You can make things worse OR you can make things better. You can feel sorry for yourself OR you can let the situation(s) inspire you to take positive action. You can look for someone to blame OR you can make a decisive decision to move forward. Just because you’ve been disappointed is no reason to add to that disappointment with your own negative attitude. In fact, just because you have been disappointed doesn’t mean you have to act that way. Your actions are based on your choices in this moment, not on past history. Your actions are based on what you’ve decided to make of yourself, not on what life has dealt you. Think about it, what if you could emerge from the situation(s) and be stronger, more positively focused, with a greater sense of purpose and unstoppable confidence ? You CAN. Make the choice that will ultimately benefit you and everyone else around you. No matter how unfair or how unjust or disappointing life may seem, choose to look ahead, act ahead and get ahead. At the end of the day, God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Remember that.