The Psychology of Forgiveness

A how-to guide on the science behind learning to forgive. Check it Out.


Dating A Man With Kids

Once upon a time I was against it, but it’s not until you find that one who has that something that you can’t leave alone. He may have a child but when you’re into someone and they are willing to make it work even with a child in the mix … take a chance. I honestly think it may be somewhat of a blessing in disguise. In one way or another the outcome may be better than expected. Don’t knock it until you try it.

Here are a couple of articles I found to be interesting regarding dating someone with kids.’t

My Fiance Never Was My ‘Boyfriend’

Amazing Read.

There's a Fire Starter In You

Ever since the engagement, many people have asked me questions about my relationship and the most prevalent one is “how long did you guys date?” The truth is we never did. He never asked me to be his girlfriend. He never asked me out on a solo date. We never even kissed. For as long as I’ve known him we were just friends… Friends that valued each other, prayed for one another, and wanted to see each other succeed in every area of life.


Now within this friendship, I admit, there were times when I looked at him like “Dang, he’s cute” or “I really admire this about him” or “I would love for my mate to have some of his qualities” but honestly there were A LOT of guys that I would say the very same thing about! Soon enough, I learned how to categorize the guys in my life by placing…

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The Be(a)st In Me

Your superpower is that you can numb yourself to all sense of feeling

Mine is that I can embrace them and, when necessary, engage the gift of healing

Blemished and scarred up is the best and worst thing I’ll ever be

They’re unsightly, but as you can see, the wound isn’t what stuck with me

Physically and emotionally I’ll always have a few spots that I’ve added day by day

And with those, I’ve also gained some really good stories along the way

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I don’t care what they say.

People will always have an opinion on something you may say or do, that’s just a part of life. Although this is something that you may never be able to get away from, at the end of the day it’s all about you, what you want and YOUR happiness.

I have been through it all, I have seen it all, I have heard it all. It wasn’t until recently where I just had to say Fu** It. Sometimes you just have to say “Fu** It” !!.

I understand that many may not always like what you are doing, who you are doing it with, support what you have, understand your situation … BUT … it’s your life and your decision when it all boils down to it.

Date who you want, travel if you want, do what YOU want … because you are living for you and your own happiness. You don’t want to regret anything later and say “I wish this, I wish that” … Your life. Your Rules. Your mistakes if may be. Do You. Live for YOU.