What’s Harder … Falling IN love or falling OUT of love ? Why ? …

Someone asked a good question yesterday … They said ” What’s harder … Falling IN love or Falling out of it, why ? ” …

I actually had to sit back and think for a second until I was actually able to answer the question.

From previous experiences I have had my take on both sides, Falling In love and falling out of it.

I would say falling IN love is easy, staying in love is the hard part. I say this because I feel that in the process of falling in love, BOTH do what it takes to make it work which can make it easy to fall in love.. It’s new, it’s fresh. Once in love one starts to slack on time spent..slack on communication..slack on trust.. slack on sacrifice.. slack on commitment.. slack on togetherness.. slack on the friendship you once had BEFORE falling IN love, which ultimately results in lost love.

 A Relationship takes TWO people working together on the same big picture all the time 24/7 No Days Off!!.. Falling OUT of Love is really only hard to the one who was wanting to stay and work it out..The one who walks away and leave they were already done loving you. 

So I ask ? What are your opinions on this ? Which is harder IN or Out ? You choose ….




One thought on “What’s Harder … Falling IN love or falling OUT of love ? Why ? …

  1. I think it’s harder to fall out of love in some situations because you have to detach from all of those feelings and memories in order to move forward even when your habit or natural instinct may be to cling to them and try to see the good even if it doesn’t outweigh the bad.

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