What’s Harder … Falling IN love or falling OUT of love ? Why ? …

Someone asked a good question yesterday … They said ” What’s harder … Falling IN love or Falling out of it, why ? ” …

I actually had to sit back and think for a second until I was actually able to answer the question.

From previous experiences I have had my take on both sides, Falling In love and falling out of it.

I would say falling IN love is easy, staying in love is the hard part. I say this because I feel that in the process of falling in love, BOTH do what it takes to make it work which can make it easy to fall in love.. It’s new, it’s fresh. Once in love one starts to slack on time spent..slack on communication..slack on trust.. slack on sacrifice.. slack on commitment.. slack on togetherness.. slack on the friendship you once had BEFORE falling IN love, which ultimately results in lost love.

 A Relationship takes TWO people working together on the same big picture all the time 24/7 No Days Off!!.. Falling OUT of Love is really only hard to the one who was wanting to stay and work it out..The one who walks away and leave they were already done loving you. 

So I ask ? What are your opinions on this ? Which is harder IN or Out ? You choose ….

 

-A

Unexpected Love

I just wanna scream I LOVE YOU ! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU ! … BUT ….

I can’t !

Those are the words that replay in my head day in AND day out.

I finally came to the conclusion that I do Love him but I can’t say it to him just yet… then again I can … but … nah, I can’t.

How do you express this unexpected feeling that just crept upon me ? How do you tell someone you Love them without losing them and them leaving?

Is that a risk that I am willing to take ? … Risk losing everything for that ONE word that has a deeper meaning day by day ?

Maybe it’s a risk that I should be willing to take instead of bottling up my feelings … holding everything in and damn near about to go insane.

I mean … should I get a dozen roses and pick them off of the stem like in the movies? “He loves me, he loves me not, He loves me” … and just go for it ?

L.O.V. E … that UNEXPECTED LOVE …

Let me break it down for ya …

L.O.V.E . UNEXPECTED LOVE

HIM.

ME.

WE.

TEAM US.

That’s what I want it to be. Rock for him and he for me.

Let’s reverse that …

UNEXPECTED LOVE.. L.O.V.E.

See what I did there ? …

I could go on and on for the reasons I Love him … but I’ll be discreet

The way he looks at me like I am the only one in the world.

The way he hugs me and holds me tight.

The way he is there and reminds me that everything will be alright.

The way he kisses my lips cool as a summer breeze

His swag, his talent, his fire for life … just puts my mind, body and soul at ease

Just HIM.

UNEXPECTED LOVE. L.O.V.E

I say unexpected because I didn’t “EXPECT” to feel this way so soon… after a previous heartbreak I said … won’t ever fall again for any type of fool …

but he is different…a rare type of breed. A man, a real man, that makes me weak at the knees.

Holding myself together until the time is right … trust and believe that in the end … Love will be mine.

LOVE. UNEXPECTED. L.O.V.E.

HIM.ME.WE.

-A

 

4 Letter Word

I’d be lying if I said that the feelings I am having are not growing more and more each day because they are. I have finally come to realization that I have been in denial for a while about this feeling. I have been going back and forth about stating the truth aloud than keeping it in my head any longer.

Question is … How do you say it without the other half running away ? How do you say it without the fear of no response ? How do you say it without everything you’ve built shattering to the ground because of that 4 letter word ?

Love. It’s tricky.

I promised myself that after the last heartbreak I would never say those words again. I promised myself that I would never fall for anyone. I said this because… when I love I love hard and once it’s said there is no going back.

How do I deal with this ? Do I say it? Do I wait ? Do I hold in my true feelings until time allows ? I don’t know.

What is the REAL meaning of LOVE ? Loving someone and being “IN LOVE” with someone … because people do tend to get it confused.

Is there a time limit to when you say it to someone ? 6 months, 1 year, 2 years ? … What are the rules of Love ? I want to know.

I want to know if it’s the same as it use to be.

I have to keep in mind that once it’s said … there is no going back. None. You either get the response you want, or yo don’t.

Love … Where do I go from here ? Only time will tell….

 

-A